It is tragic how the
addict can love their drug more than a spouse, children, employment, and the
positive feelings derived from responsibility and respecting moderation. It is essential to understand that active addiction
also severs ties and openness to
spiritual matters as there are few moments of true clarity.
Carl Jung believed that craving for alcohol was really a
search for wholeness or union with God.
The Latin term for alcohol is spiritus
and he remarked, "...you use the same word for the highest religious
experience as well as for the most depraving poison." Most labels on distilled liquor still use the
term Spirits of Alcohol.
Abraham
Maslow commenting on the spiritual life stated that it is the
basic component of “our biological life.”
Spiritual life constitutes the most essential humanity. Leo Jampolsky notes that "addiction is a
misdirected spiritual search that is rooted in a fundamental belief that I am
not acceptable the way I am and there is a void that needs to be filled." Addicts believe something external to
themselves will fill this void.
Bill Wilson,
co-founder of AA, referred to alcoholism as a "soul sickness and a form of
spiritual bankruptcy." In addiction, the person has no real being or is a lost
soul, disconnected from self, others, and God in a profound way. Addiction is a
misguided state of being that seeks meaning, peace, and transcendence which are
characteristics of spirituality.
Addiction is misguided because it seeks to replace God
with allegiances to objects or attachments.
Spiritually, addiction is a deep-seated form of idolatry. The objects of
our addictions become our false gods. These are what we worship, what we attend
to, where we primarily give our time and energy.
The Greek word (the original language of the New
Testament) for soul is psyche and is
the root for the concept of psychology. Addiction is often seen as soul sickness. Kevin P. McClone
has coined the term Psychospirituality of
Addiction integrating psychological insights with the spiritual nature of
addiction.
Addiction generally involves toxic shame most often derived
from abuse. The victim feels there is something defective
about themselves and suffer feelings of worthlessness. Their God given dignity was
damaged in the abuse and in a sense they carry the offenders shame who
committed but has not been accountable about the abuse. This can occur in any
stage of life, not just childhood. This also includes all trauma issues like dislocation, homelessness, oppression in war torn countries, spousal abuse, accidents, any PTSD etc.
James Reeves has written about The Emotional - Spiritual Principle in his book Refuge.
1.Your spiritual growth will never go beyond
your emotional growth.
your emotional growth.
2. You
can never have a more intimate
relationship with God than you are
capable of having with other people.
relationship with God than you are
capable of having with other people.
3. Your
level of emotional maturity will
always create a ceiling for your spiritual
maturity.
always create a ceiling for your spiritual
maturity.
In an attempt to integrate the previous discussion, I
understand addiction as a matter of uncertain identity. Identity in this sense consists roughly of what makes you
unique and valuable as an individual and different from others. It is the way you see or
define yourself, or the network of values and convictions that structure your
life.
My next post will discuss the dynamics of identity.